How to Vibe Check Your Vendor
Turning "Vendor Questions" into a Fun Wedding Checklist
Okay, let's ditch the formal interview and turn this into a fun checklist for your wedding vendor hunt! You want to find pros who are talented AND a good fit for your vibe, right? Here's how to get the info you need while keeping things light and exciting:
1. Vibe Check!
"Show me your best work!" (Instead of just asking for a portfolio, make it exciting! Ask to see their favorite weddings they've done.)
"Spill the tea! What's your favorite kind of wedding to work on?" (This helps you see if their style matches yours - do they love rustic barn weddings, or are they all about that glam ballroom life?)
"Imagine my wedding... [describe your vision] - are you in?" (Get them excited about your vision and see if they're genuinely enthusiastic.)
2. The Practical Stuff (But Make it Fun)
"So, are you free on [date]? No double-booking, please!" (Keep it lighthearted, but make sure they're all yours on your big day.)
"Let's talk numbers! What's your pricing look like, and what awesome things are included?" (Instead of just asking about rates, show you're interested in the value they offer.)
"Hidden fees? Nobody likes surprises!" (Make it clear you're savvy and want to know everything upfront.)
"Got any happy couples I can chat with?" (References are key, but make it sound like you're looking for new friends who had amazing weddings.)
"Contract time! Can you break it down for me in plain English?" (Don't be afraid to ask for clarification - it's your wedding, after all!)
"Emergency plan? Let's hope we don't need it, but just in case..." (Show you're organized and want to be prepared for anything.)
3. Don't Forget the Important Details!
"Timeline talk! When can I expect to see those amazing photos/videos?" (Get excited about the deliverables and set clear expectations.)
"Social media shout-out? Can I share those gorgeous pics?" (Clarify how you can use their work and if they'll be featuring your wedding too.)
"Licensed and insured? Gotta keep it legal!" (Make it a quick and casual check - they should have this info readily available.)
Bonus Tip: Always trust your gut! If you feel a good connection with a vendor and they're excited about your wedding, that's a great sign!
Remember, planning your wedding should be fun! Don't be afraid to let your personality shine through when talking to vendors. Happy planning! 🥂